Sunday, November 14, 2010
10 Dangers of Sex Addiction
Sexual problems are very diverse. Disturbance can be started from the desire that is not lit, pain during intercourse, up to erection problems. Many of the disorders that can be fixed using medication and therapy. However, one sex is relatively difficult problems facing the addiction.
Sex addiction (sexual addiction) are often considered not a problem for many people. In fact, for patients and their spouses, the disorder can be devastating. Not only damage the private lives of sufferers, but also the social environment, family, and especially people with a life partner (see box: The Addictions and result).According to experts, sexual addiction is sexual activity that has been customary to fit quite out of control. People with sex addiction and felt compelled to get to immerse themselves in sexual activity, although aware of all risks that may be encountered.
Sex can be addictive as alcohol and illicit drugs. When berkegiatan sex, the body releases a chemical compound that makes our bodies to be comfortable. Some people become addicted to remove these chemicals and become obsessed to get again and again and again, a sense of comfort that would arise.As addiction to another, the more your body used to the release of these chemical compounds. Body addicts need more and more numbers, more and more, and more and more, which means felt the need to continue having sex, there is never satisfied.Among the fulfillment of sexual needs and high chemical compound, emerged triumphant. It is often identified with the feelings of shame, regret, suffering, pleading, and nervous. People with addiction can feel remote, isolated, and powerless to change his behavior. Well, along with continued turning the endless loop it, people with addictions continue to get sex in an attempt to escape the feeling that handcuff.
More than 6 percent, according to conservative estimates, 3 to 6 percent of the population suffering from addiction to sex and 20 percent of whom are women. They come from various walks of life. However, the rate of three to six percent is estimated to be too low from the actual number of sufferers.
Given the prevalent sexual addiction is accompanied by feelings of shame and disgraceful, according to the site belongs to Dr. Patrick Carnes, a consultant and a leading sex addiction expert, www.sexhelp.com, people so often find it difficult to get help. For this reason also, the type of profile of people with sex addiction is difficult to obtain.Since the opening of the Internet with a variety of cheap sexual services without having to open identity enthusiasts, experts can only know that people with sex addiction that rose sharply without knowing their exact identity. With the limited rescue service for patients, experts believe the number of people with sex addiction that will continue to rise. Then, as if the signs of those who suffer from sex addiction? Dr Patrick Carnes suggests the existence of 10 possible signs that need to be aware of:
1. Feel that your behavior is not restrained.
2. Aware could arise due to the severe if you continue with that behavior.
3. Feeling unable to stop the behavior you even aware of the consequences.
4. Permanent hunt destructive activities and / or high-risk.
5. Keep hoping to stop or control what you do and act actively to limit the dangerous activity you do.
6. Using sexual fantasies as a way to cope with difficult feelings or situations.
7. Need sex constantly to always feel good.
8. Suffer from a feeling that continues to flare up around sexual activity.
9. Spend plenty of time to plan, conduct, or regret and do more sexual activity.
10. Ignoring social activities, the activities office, and recreational activities are important for the sake of sex. Need to recognize when you see one of the signs above are contained in your behavior, the most important steps that can be done is to recognize that sexual addiction is a real problem and can not go away or it will disappear by itself. You must choose the attitude personally responsible for the recovery of disorder that could be you are experiencing.
Generally people with sexual problems are found it difficult to change their own behavior. However, at least little by little you should be able to minimize the behavior as described in the above signs of the coming cycle although sometimes the urge to do anything too strong to be resisted. A professional therapist can help you to understand what really happened and encourage you to take steps to change towards the sexual lifestyle that is healthier.
Conversely, if you suspect that your spouse is a patient addicted to sex, you should have helped to change the behavior. Mental attitude you need to prepare for yourself is, nobody will recover from addiction but to accept that they have a disorder and want to change. Because of that, help strengthen the resolve of your partner who is addicted to the stronger willingness to make changes.
It's messy, painful, and confusing a couple who are addicted to sex. If in Western societies, even the available help for those who have a spouse sex addict. Help can be personal as well as in the form of companion group (support group). Well, here is not yet available though such service, you can Ngintip-Ngintip looking for insight, for example, to a Sex Addicts Anonymous, an international website which provides information on assistance from the British in www.saa-recovery.org or at the British Association of Sexual and Relationship therapists, who offer personal sex therapist directory at: www.basrt.org.uk. Forms of addiction and consequences of sex addiction may show different forms, but generally recognized from behavior that feels out of control.
This behavior includes:- Spend plenty of time to enjoy the products of pornography -Uncontrollable masturbation -Ekshibisionisme -Voyeurism -Fetishes -High-risk sex -Prostitution -Phone sex and sex over the Internet -Infidelity -Having sex with a new partner when it is known
According to Dr Carne, the survey revealed a result of the behavior of sex addiction, among others:70 percent experienced severe disruption with 40 percent losing her life partner spouse 27 percent of lost opportunities in a career 40 percent experienced unwanted pregnancies 72 percent obsessed suicidal 17 percent attempted suicide 68 percent of sexually transmitted disease.
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